Alternative Displute Resolution (ADR) provides an option for those who prefer to stay out of the courtroom and many potential advantages, including reduced cost, faster resolution, less emotional stress, and the ability to construct solutions that are unique to your specific situation. In divorce, and child custody cases in particular, the adversarial process has increased tensions between the parties. These tensions may not abate even when the process is complete. Non-adversarial alternatives, such as mandatory mediation, can save time and money and preserve relationships to the extent possible.